The highest heights of pleasure? Really? Are you moonlighting for Harlequin or something? Your sweetheart/-/lame in bed/dumpling of a girlfriend doesn't want to have sex with you. This could be because she's Out of all the grief I ( as of us do) suffered during the process of a Sweet older women want sex encounter looking for couple divorce where one party abandoned the other- When it came to mediation, we came to a somewhat mutual agreement. I was at that point willing to walk away with a court order for him to never be able to contact us again Skipping past the small stuff- we came to a very mutual agreement. IN that agreement the other party was still responcible for marital debt. I am still paying for our marital debt while other party says they are doing the best they can do , but have moved about 4 times and have bought 2 trucks- used but new to them and a brand new Cadillac. I dont really care about all that but I know everyone say that I do because I mention it. The fact is that claims are made that the debt can not be paid and all efforts have been made to pay this debt when none have been made at all. SOOOOO Here I am left to do what I have to do to resolve this matter. I have gone thru the entire process except taking the papers to the sherrif to serve contempt of court papers. Truth is, I hate that I have to go to this extreme, but I have no other choice. I personally hate that I am put in this situation, but as I am regaining the independance that was lost in this marriage, I need for all of the marital situations to be resolved. After all the wrong I have been done, why do I feel so bad about having to pursue what I am not legally- but rightfully entitiled too! Allyn WA bi horney housewifes depressed, has a low libido, has poor body image (which, I'm sure you're like SUPER supportive about), or because you are a raging jackass and she simply can't enjoy the prospect of intimacy with someone who clearly thinks he's superior to her. Might be a little bit of all of that, actually. Whatever the case, years in, with no progress toward marriage (and really, thank the lucky stars) you need to it. She's talking to other guys (I dunno, maybe seeking some affirmation, since the who claims to her makes it clear she isn't hot enough for him) and refuses to meet your family. That is not the behavior of a person who wants to share the rest of their life with you. You meanwhile, are holding out this carrot of marriage if only she'd lose a little weight. And make sure to keep it off. Cause, you know angels are all in great shape, after all. You need to be attracted to and proud of your partner. Each of you are missing part of this equation. There's no saving this. Let go. Move on. She'll be much happier in the run with someone who loves her JUST AS SHE IS. And you can find someone as shallow as you are to sweat it out in the gym. And you'll be the "hot couple" and stay together forever. Or, right up till she leaves your ass 'cause you're losing your hair.